When She Says She Needs Space
Has your girlfriend or ex girlfriend told you she needs space? Wondering what the heck she means by this?
When she says she needs space, it literally means she needs space between you and her.
Not just physical space, but mental space as well. She doesn't need to hear from you at this moment. She will contact you when she's ready.
It is important that you don't try and work what she is requesting from you in your favor. What I mean is you don't want to think she is playing hard to get. She is not.
She is telling you exactly what is required of you.
If you don't give her the space, and the time (as these two do go hand in hand) that she needs, you are going to make things worse. Trust me.
If you don't respect her wishes, she will think the following two things.
First, she will see that you just don't get it. And this will again remind her of the other faults in the relationship, and why you aren't ultimately making her happy.
Second, she will see that you are being selfish, needy, desperate, worried... and none of these qualities will turn her on. In fact, they will turn her off of you.
If a woman says she needs space, remove yourself from her. No calling, no emailing, no texting, no snail mail. Otherwise, she won't just ask for her space. She will demand it.
If you bug her, you will be a nuisance. It will not show how much you care. She already knows that.
So if a woman says she needs her space. Disappear. She knows how to find you.
To get your ex-girlfriend back, you must do the opposite of what you think you should do!
-xo Kat
www.howtogeturgirlback.com
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